This week has been strange. Really REALLY fucking strange. I got a message on Tuesday which shocked me to my core. I’m not exaggerating, I was literally lost for words. I cried. I sat wondering what to do with myself. I checked to see if I had imagined it. It was real.
I won’t go into the content too much but basically it was regarding something which happened over five and a half years ago and that I have never been able to get over. I believe the reasons for this unexpected contact were genuine and over the course of a few more messages which we have exchanged I have started to come to terms with how things were back then and how they are now. There is still that part of me though (the paranoid side which can’t believe that anyone would ever do anything without wishing me harm) wondering when it’s all going to come crashing down, shoving me back into that pit of despair where onlookers gawp over the edge, maniacally laughing at my stupidity and naivety.
I’m am trying to stay focused on the positives though. I never thought for a second that I would ever receive this message. My previous attempts at contact had been met with less than enthusiastic responses and I had accepted that things would always be that way. I presumed that I would be forever hated and despised with no way to make amends or my apology known. Now I have a glimmer of hope that I can move on and put the past behind me. I’d really love it if we could stay in contact and maybe even one day have some weird kind of friendship again. Life does seem to enjoy throwing a curve ball from time to time so who knows…